1.29.2009

No answer is also an answer..

Lots of people are incapable of explaining why they feel the way they do. Some are too afraid to express their feelings for the fact that maybe they dont want to hurt the other person, or even pursue anything at all because they are afraid of how things will turn out.

So some people just figure that you will read between the lines and know that romance will never begin, or for those in a relationship, they expect you to know the love is over...

While explanations can be helpful, they are never offered. Many loves end horribly or never get started, and no words help the pain or clear the confusion...

What about when someone likes you and you don't like them?..
Do you sit them down and tell them or do you go about your business and hope they get the message?

Silence is easy, but it's not always the best solution, that's why we need to figure out what we are saying even when we are not using words..

If you are the one who causes the pain, don't be too proud to admit you are wrong and apologize. It can bring you closer..

If you care for someone it's not worth staying mad and holding grudges..
Express your disappointment..talk it over..and move on..

If that's not the case, just remember that no answer is also an answer.

It usually means they don't care. Obviously to them.. the situation is not worth discussing and they feel you are not important enough to get an explanation..

1 comment:

Team VOY said...

well done, Mrz. Endy. I made a few grammar and spacing edits, look them over, but if you disagree with any--feel free to change it back (although the grammar is possibly flawless :)