Unforgivable Mistakes...

Sometimes we make mistakes perhaps for fun, for the lack of love and attention from our partner, perhaps because with time we fall into a routine or just because we don’t love our partner anymore. My question is:

Would you forgive unfaithfulness?

Would it be possible for you to be happy knowing that the person whom you have never been unfaithful to,

The one who is supposed to love you and share those special moments just with you, didn’t care and failed you?

Would you trust this person again?

Do you think the anger, the jealousy, and the disappointment you feel now would let you be happy with this person again?

Do you think there is a valid reason for this person to be unfaithful to you?

Do you think it would be worthy to forgive and to forget?

Would you forget?

The truth is, when we cheat we jeopardize a lot of things that we shouldn’t risk for just a moment of fun. If that is the case then,

Where was the love that person was supposed to feel for you?

On the other hand, if it wasn't just for fun then we have more reason not to forgive. In my opinion, when a relationship is darkened by the cloud of unfaithfulness there is nothing else to look for.

We should turn the page and close that chapter of our lives. It's not worth forgiving someone who disrespected you that way, someone who hurt you and what is even worse, someone who didn’t think about you and the possibility of losing you.

Life is too short, give yourself the opportunity to find someone who is really willing to live for you. Someone who respects you and with whom you can live a pure love without anything that will ruin it. It is better to be alone than with the wrong person.

Editor's Note

Writers, just a few things that need to be addressed (in no particular order of importance):

1. Initially, there were about seven writers invited to this tester version of a blog. Only members can write, and only about four of the seven, on a great day contribute on a semi-regular basis.
   

• In response, there will be another group of writers invited--writers who I think would contribute.
• The blog will stay available to view, but if/when these additional writers do contribute, I will close it completely to members only until we're ready to proceed to the next level.
  
• However, even while it is closed, there will be an influx of writers invited periodically, the more people who are invited translate to people who write more--easily overriding those who don't.
• Lastly, if you might know anyone interested--don't hesitate to get their e-mail addresses and have them invited.

2. As a new feature, I will be posting and/or e-mailing questions to writers, inviting anyone to write a response to it--as always anyway you want it, and post it directly to the blog.

• Additionally, anyone is free to post/e-mail their own questions, inviting a response as well.
• Usually, the writer who poses the question should stay out of answering it, but if need be--whether no one else answered to it, or the question is just that intriguing--by all means.

3. Lastly, it's important to emphasize that everything that was written about, be it new features or anything else will be done. You should do the same.